More than often, when we read a story or incident in news, we get only one aspect of it. However, alot more lives may have been affected in many other ways. Read a mother's story at this link:
http://www.oprah.com/article/omagazine/200911-omag-susan-klebold-columbine
(Note: It's long story, but I don't think you'll be able to leave it in between. I could not !!)